Nothing has meaning until you say it does. ~T.Harv.Eker~
Okay so we have opposites in our life. Up/down, on/off, light/dark, positive/negative. These are all things that we perceive. One thing for sure is that until we put a meaning behind these occurrences they really don’t mean anything at all.
If you are colouring a picture, and you make it light, then it is light. Or you colour it darker and then it is dark. It isn’t anything except neutral in colour until you decide if it’s light or dark. You get to choose.
If you listen to music, it is nothing more than sound frequencies and vibrations. Is it loud? Is it quiet? You determine that.
Perhaps you know someone who always blows things way out of proportion? It could be someone who makes mountains out of every molehill. There are everyday occurrences that can be taken either way.
Its perception and you can choose.
Something’s are not that bad or that awful until we say they are and begin to believe it. We can flip that around and make it a whole lot less dreadful.
What you give meaning to, what you FOCUS on is the result.
If you focus on light, positive, happiness, joy, what do you think you will get? Yes, exactly that. Now if you keep your mood and mind stuck in the negatives like fear, loathing, jealousy, panic, tragedy,yes you guessed it!! You get that too.
Hey we all have a dual emotion going on all the time. It is completely normal to have the negative thoughts as completely normal it is to have the positive thoughts. The difference though in what results will follow is how long you decide to stay in one feeling or the other.
If you get the bad day, the bad mood, the grumpiness of people all around you, it’s okay to let it affect you, but if you stay there, and give all those circumstances your negative feelings and let them perch on your emotional tree branch; you are going to become exactly that. It’s up to you. Depending how long you decide to stay there determines your future perceptions of your life.
Alternatively, positive meanings that get perched on that tree are going to result in positive circumstances.
All those things in life, they are all neutral, just energy. You give them meaning. What are you going to choose? How long are you going to choose to remain? You are in control of your feelings and your life. We all have yucky days, but your decision to either get stuck in the negative or focus on the positive and change it up is all you.
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